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Why aren’t You Loving Yourself Completely?

I have been searching for reasons why I have manifesting blocks, money blocks, success blocks, life blocks...  I have done every workshop, read every book, and I still wasn't getting any answers.

Everything felt  so surface based. Use your thoughts to attract to your desires, visualize your future to create it, meditate to connect to your higher power. But SOMETHING was still missing. I discovered a common theme with my knowledge, and it is that EVERYTHING comes back to unconscious beliefs about our self worth, self love, self respect, self care, self value, self, self, self!

If you don't love, respect, and accept yourself COMPLETELY, the truth is you won't manifest as readily as you'd like to. And I mean COMPLETELY. There may be things about ourselves we don't like, don't acknowledge or don't even know about. 

So we push them to the side, don't let ourselves GO THERE, don't let ourselves EXPRESS these so called 'unacceptable' feelings, behaviors and thoughts.

We tell ourselves:

  • No don't think that, thats wrong

  • No don't feel that, good people don't feel those things

  • No I can't get angry, anger is bad

  • No I can't lose control, I am better than that

We self sabotage and we don't know where it came from, that we are even doing it or how to stop the process and accept ourselves for ALL that we are. 

SO HERE IS MY CHALLENGE TO YOU! 

Stop beating yourself up for thinking, behaving, and feeling certain ways. Stop telling yourself you're wrong, you're a bad person, a bad mother, a bad lover. Stop thinking you're not good enough, not pretty enough, not smart enough, not GOOD enough.

How? BY acknowledging the thought, and choosing again. Chose another thought. Say this to yourself 'I chose again, I chose to believe I am worthy' of whatever it may be. 

Let's cut this habit for good. None of us are perfect. Express your thoughts, feelings, needs.

GET OUT OF THIS HABIT for the new year! Learn to ACCEPT YOURSELF completely. We have dark, childish, and perhaps 'unacceptable' behaviors and you know what? It is okay. Just don't direct it at others, learn to express it within yourself and through yourself (go for a jog, scream into a pillow, stomp your feet, blast the music!).

Now this doesn't change over night. You have to PRACTICE, work at it, and be aware of yourself. But you can start making these shifts to loving yourself TODAY. You are the answer. 

So how does one change their unconscious beliefs for good? Where are they stored? How does one access, see and acknowledge them? Where did they even come from? 

I discovered the answers and I'd like you to discover them too.  Here is my invitation to you to CHANGE YOUR LIFE forever. 

Watch my FREE 2 open house workshops and continue learning by clicking the images below!

I invite you to join Soul Expansion School, here you can create a shift in your life that is aligned with your soul, develop your self-worth, grow your intuition, and finally begin to manifest the live you know you deserve.

⁂ Soul Expansion school takes you deeply into your past and your subconscious. It will help you discover what is stored within yourself. You will find where your blocks came from and learn specific solutions that can change your life forever. 

⁂ This program WILL give you the answers as to why you're not manifesting or creating the life you want. Soul Expansion School techniques are MUCH DEEPER than other law of attraction, visualization, and meditations practices.  You will really have to take a genuine look at yourself, at your life, and at your past. That is where the solution to your problems lie. 

In order to do this, you have to put in the work, but I will teach you EXACTLY how. You have to be ready to face yourself, your past, the beautiful, the ugly, and the truth. This work is not easy, it takes some real gumption, but if you're ready then this is the answer. 

Step into greater self worth, finally learn to cultivate love from within, enrich your life by stepping into the leading roll of your own journey. Soul Expansion School can take you there. 

All my love,

Bianca